Why you’ve never actually had an argument with your spouse
This sounds crazy, but stay with me: When you interact with someone, you aren’t interacting with them. You are interacting with the “Avatar” of them that your own mind has rendered based on your past memories, your current mood, and your personal filters.
And here is the kicker: They are doing the exact same thing to you.
We are all walking around in our own private Virtual Reality headsets, reacting to “projections” of each other, and wondering why communication is so hard.
I’m thrilled to announce my new book, Rendered Reality. It’s a deep dive into the “Inside-Out” nature of life—and how understanding your mental hardware changes everything about how you work, love, and live.
It’s the user’s manual for the most important piece of hardware that you didn’t know you had.
Coming soon.



