“You need a better mindset.”
That’s the advice, right?
Upgrade your thinking. Reframe the situation.
Choose abundance over lack, growth over fear, optimism over doubt.
It sounds empowering.
Like success is just one mental shift away.
Like your mind is a problem to fix—with the right prompts and affirmations.
But here’s the thing:
That’s upside-down.
Because it treats your mindset as the cause of your experience.
As if your feelings come from your mental settings—
and if you could just dial them in right, life would finally feel good.
But experience doesn’t come from mindset.
It comes from thought in the moment.
Fresh. Alive. Ever-changing.
You don’t need to manage your mindset like a fussy thermostat.
The mind resets on its own.
Clarity is built in.
The more you try to get a better mindset,
the more you reinforce the idea that peace comes from control.
But peace isn’t manufactured.
It’s what shows up when the noise settles down.
You don’t need to fix your mind.
You just need to stop believing it’s broken.
Here’s today’s Upside-Down Wisdom:
You don’t need a better mindset. You need to see through the illusion that you even have one.
This is Upside-Down Wisdom—a series where we flip the script on the conventional "wisdom" we've been taught. If you would like to read other posts in this series, please visit the Upside-Down Wisdom page.